In so many ways we can agree with this. In every situation we will poke, dig, and provoke in every which way possible. In a way, we will never be satisfied unless our elected officials are in the same shoes, or unless we see an immediate change within a couple of days.
The controversy surrounding this argument is that the First Lady and one of her daughters took a very "lavished" trip to Spain to visit a close friend to the First Lady. Her reasoning was for condolence. With the opportunity present we would do the same, but like stated in the commentary, "All this is a result of bad timing...if the economy wasn't in such a destitute position and without such high spending of taxpayer's dollars, perhaps Michelle Obama's trip to Spain would not have come under such strict scrutiny." I completely agree with you 100%. Given the present circumstances and current events our economy is hurting and hurting ourselves for grandiose trips like these. But let's also not forget that our elected officials do not only depend on our taxpayer dollars. Before the Presidential Election, the First Family was a wealthy family from the start. With the President serving as the US Senator from Illinois, the First Family had a wealth of their own.
Coming into the greater public eye, now every move they make is put under a strict telescope.
Yes, the trip made was great and expensive, the security, travel and lodging were of high demand and a high rate. Not everything we see done will settle well with all of us, but we must stop scrutinizing the little things, the outside, the freedom from the office, as much and focus on the greater future.
From the quote you stated, "...the more expensive or lavish the trip, the greater the risk of criticism."